Some people just can't cut the number of people. And I understand that!
But what if you cut the food - I mean, don't invite people and expect them to starve. But what are your options?
Southern Style:
What about a Tea and Cake Reception, or Champagne and Cake? If you plan your ceremony after 8PM, and note on your invitation, "Dessert Reception to Follow" you'd be in store for this:
and this: {Dressed up the Champage with different kinds of fruit}
cakes by Posh Pastry {for 2 Year Old birthday party}